You would never allow anyone to treat you worse than you treat yourself. It is really true. These “asses” trigger our worse fears and insecurities. At the end of the day it is an inside job, and as much as we make it about them, it really isn’t AND that what makes it so hard. It’s much easier to “think” we can change someone else vs. doing the actual work to change ourselves. We are worth it though, otherwise we would not have been led so forcefully into this challenge.