Well said my friend. When they attempt to get you back (of course they set it up to be your idea becuase G.d forbid they take ownership), the excuses and the accusations they hurl at you are simply out of crazy town. The ex broke up with me once because I didn't leave room on the bathroom counter for his toothbrush. The most insane part of this is that I went back 3x! It's like living in an alternative reality. Finally, I pulled my head out of my arse, but it took waaaay to long. To those still caught up in this shit storm, please absorb this... whatever amount of time you were in the relationship, it will take an equal amount of time to fully recover. Don't waste anymore time on the back end.