There are thousands of articles about NARCS taking your money, but when they have $$, they ALWAYS use it as a form of abuse!! My ex was insanely rich. He would buy me tens and thousands worth of gifts that I didn't even like/want, he could not perceive me as a person with my own tastes and preferences. If I even suggested that I "liked" something he didn't choose, he would scream at me and tell me that I was ungrateful and entitled. He lost his cool in therapy one day and yelled out, "I make the money, so I make the decisions, period!!!!!!..., you need to put out and shut up!" The therapist was horrified, I was elated because finally his mask fell off.